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Bringing Confidence And Nuance To On And Offline Networking (Networking Series)
With networking comes nuance. This edition is all about your confidence, choosing the right people, and creating an authentic space for networking to happen naturally. (Plus this week’s campaigns, obviously!)

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Have you been able to take advantage of some of the networking events we have here in Vegas yet?
(If not, hop on Eventbrite and get to clicking!)
If you have, you know its fertile ground for decision makers and sales-oriented folks like us to make deals happen…without the headache of 3 months of rapport building.
(The AMF is a fabulous ice breaker.)
But if you’re avoiding these types of networking events because of social anxiety (or just anxiety in general) this first section is all for you.
Showing Up Confidently: The First Step
The hardest part for folks like you and I (LJ) is we feel by simply talking about our offer - no matter how awesome it is - we’re annoying.
(Yep. we feel it too, you’re not alone.)
The fact of the matter is that those listening to us, especially at these events, are there to listen and make connections too!
And chances are, they’re feeling a similar pressure.
Let’s break it down to a simpler level.
When we have things on the line (our income, livelihood, sick ass car, etc.) we put unnecessary pressure on ourselves…
…that most of the time isn’t even on who we’re talking to’s radar.
When we meet a stranger in a professional setting we’re not checking credentials right away.
(Unless you’ve got too much free time.)
We trust that nice lady at the dentist’s office to actually be the office manager…simply because she’s there.
Short story shorter? Step into your confidence. You’ve already got the benefit of the doubt.
Our advice is to approach and let go.
Your offer isn’t for everyone, in fact, a better sales tactic is to disqualify people as fast as possible (while being friendly and professional of course).
Listening Actively
In middle school we had a dedicated section in ELA class all about active and passive listening.
I still remember Mr. Kochmeyer, my English teacher explaining the social expectations of active listening:
Flitting eye contact
Nodding and non-verbal agreement (mhm)
Repeating key words
Asking genuine questions (not just keeping a conversation going for no reason)
It might seem stupid (I certainly thought so) but these small things add to your confidence and help with the imposter syndrome you might be facing.
The Fortune’s In The Follow Up
After the networking event ends and everyone’s packed up and gone home, the real game begins.
Conversations started need to be finished.
Relationships need to be deepened.
Deals need to be finalized.
So instead of you grasping at straws for how to follow up after a networking event…we’ve got our go-to plan written down for ya:
Day After
Social media connects
Add them to your address book/CRM
Send an email/text (It was nice meeting you, recap what you spoke about, request a follow up conversation)
3 Days After
Social media touch (non-work related)
10 Days After
Email/text (copy from day after method) follow up on additional meetings
Connect with someone in their network
Pro Tip: Local Chamber Events
If you need to dip your toe into the pool of networking take a look at the Vegas Chamber website for some low-impact activities like grand openings, mix-n-mingles, and straight up business seminars!
Creating A Network Online
There’s not really a “best” place to build an online network. We've always said the best place is based on your audience as you define in your BIRDIE strategy.
Since most of the time LinkedIn can be used for most audiences (either as a primary or secondary/tertiary platform) it's what we recommend starting with.
Here’s a checklist(Google Sheets) you can download and use to make sure your LinkedIn profile is as good as it can be.
Choosing Good Referral Agents and Partners
If they:
Compliment your brand
Talk to the same audience
Have a history of authentic engagement; and
Prioritize the relationship before the sales
They’re a perfect potential partner.
(Just always prioritize your brand over a connection that just looks good on paper!)
Authentic Engagement
In online communities, forums, and groups you’ve got a way to easily and authentically show off your expertise without the funky feelings of anxiety.
Adding insightful notes and comments to people who are experiencing problems you fix is simple and effective at getting your face and name out there.
From there you can talk to people one to one through the comments (replies) or through direct messages.
(Or adding them to your private group if they’re interested!)
Using the DMs effectively is a lot more than “so what do you solve for your clients?” (don’t do that method, it’s overused).
It’s about delivering value, fun, and one-to-one rapport building.
(Yeah memes are acceptable!)
At the end of your networking is you and them.
No need to overcomplicate it!
Just a note from Fahad - please join me in saying congratulations to LJ and their husband! They’ll be traveling to Greece next week so I’ll be riding solo while they go celebrate.
We love you guys!
Until next week,
Fahad and LJ
What’s Next
Approaching networking with a win-win mindset
Nurturing your network
Finding learning opportunities
This Week’s Campaigns
Realtors
Concept: Create a reel where you take your audience to your absolute favorite local spot (could be a coffee shop, a hidden park, a unique small business, or a specific trail) and share a personal story about why this place resonates with you and what it adds to the Las Vegas lifestyle.
Why it works: You're not just selling houses; you're selling the experience of living in Las Vegas. By sharing your personal connection to the city's unique charm, you allow potential clients to see your authentic passion for the community, building trust and showing that you truly understand the lifestyle they're looking for. (And also showing that you’re a cool cat!)
Therapists
Concept: Share a personal reel demonstrating a few simple, yet effective, self-care practices that you personally use to maintain your well-being amidst the energetic pace of Las Vegas. This could involve a quick breathing exercise you do before a session, a favorite calming spot you visit, or a simple routine that helps you recharge. (Or rage therapy works too…)
Why it works: You're demonstrating vulnerability and authenticity by sharing your own coping strategies, showing your audience that you practice what you preach. This builds immense trust and relatability, making you a more approachable and inspiring figure for those seeking support.
Retail/E-Commerce
Concept: Create a reel where you personally share the inspiration, the 'aha!' moment, passion, or the core value that led you to start your business or curate your unique collection. Show snippets of your workspace, your creative process, or even a 'mood board' that reflects your brand's essence.
Why it works: You're inviting customers into your world and connecting them with the human element of your brand. When they understand your passion and vision, they feel a deeper connection to the products you offer, moving beyond a simple transaction to a shared appreciation for your mission. (Yep! Pushing that BIRDIEEEE!)
Consultants/Coaches
Concept: Share a personal reel articulating the fundamental principles or unique philosophies that guide your consulting/coaching practice. This could be about leadership, innovation, client relationships, or strategic thinking, all framed through the lens of your personal conviction and experience. (LEAN INTO YOUR PERSONAL BIRDIE!!!)
Why it works: You're showcasing your leadership and unique perspective, allowing potential clients to understand your core values and how your distinct approach can lead to breakthroughs. This helps them connect with you as the expert who can truly guide their success. (Which might not be you - but this type of content will help bring those who align closer!)
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